<p>Sometimes I’ll catch my husband staring at my ass with a certain kind of hunger in his eyes. It tends to happen most often after I’ve gotten out of the shower or I’m fresh out of a pool. He stares with genuine desire. I know what he wants when he’s staring at my ass like that. I know he’s thinking about rimming me.</p><p>I know that in his case part of the pleasure of it is that it feels kind of naughty. I think it feels a little bit naughtier if he doesn’t ask to do it. He likes to be told to lick a hole that some people think is disgusting. I can understand that, though. For some people, there’s a great deal of pleasure to be found in being told to do something a little bit dirty or naughty.</p><p>So, every once in a while, if I’m in the right mood (it tends to happen on vacation, when I’m almost always in a good mood) I’ll see him staring at my ass in that hungry kind of way and I’ll give him what he wants.</p><p>As with so many things, presentation matters. I don’t always get it right, but there are a few fun ways to go about it. If I want to draw it out a little, I do something like this:</p><p>“You know, you might enjoy the view better if you came a little closer,” I say as I catch him staring at my ass.</p><p>He’s a little sheepish, but he comes closer as that hungry look grows.</p><p>“Why don’t you get on your knees for me,” I suggest.</p><p>He falls to his knees. At that point a quick look over my shoulder is all it takes to see if he’s into it. People aren’t all that good at hiding their excitement, so I can usually see it on his face.</p><p>“Go ahead and kiss it,” I say.</p><p>He leans forward and he kisses it. It almost always feels good, especially since his kisses are soft. Plus, I can damn near feel his desire at that point. I know what he wants. He certainly knows what he wants. The only question is whether or not I’m going to give it to him. Sometimes I let him rim me right away. Sometimes I like to draw it out a little.</p><p>“I know what you want,” I say as I look over my shoulder at him. “But I want you to say it.”</p><p>His mood – mostly whether he’s feeling submissive or just a little bit kinky – tends to dictate what he says. I like this because it’s a good way for me to tell how to proceed.</p><p>“I want to worship your ass,” he says.</p><p>That’s a good sign that he’s feeling submissive. Then I know to play it a certain way. The more I up the dominance, the more fun we’ll both have.</p><p>“Then convince me you deserve to worship my ass,” I say as I look back at him.</p><p>“Please, let me worship your ass,” he says. “I’ll make you feel good. I’ll make you feel so good.”</p><p>“Kiss it,” I say. “Kiss my asshole.”</p><p>He reaches up to spread my ass cheeks. He buries his face between them, a sensation that I’ve grown to love, and I feel his lips against my asshole. He offers a soft kiss. It feels good, like he’s teasing all the nerve endings in my anus.</p><p>I hear him moan. That might be the part I love the most. It turns him on to do what he’s doing. He’s feeling it in that deeply satisfying kind of way where the arousal becomes a full body experience.</p><p>“Worship my ass,” I say.</p><p>That’s when he lets loose. His tongue works back and forth over my asshole like he’s giving me the most erotic massage imaginable. It feels good. It really does, especially now that I’ve fully gotten over any weirdness I used to associate with having my ass licked. There are lots of nerve endings around the anus and he’s working them all with his tongue, delighting me in the process.</p><p>If I’m in the mood, I’ll masturbate while he worships my ass. Sometimes I instruct him to play with my pussy and get me off. Sometimes I’ll turn up the dirty talk and tell him he can masturbate, which I know he enjoys doing while he’s rimming me.</p><p>All told, it almost always ends with two very happy people, and that’s really all you can ask for when you’re having that kind of fun.</p>